79. Does evangelism turn unbelievers into "projects"?

        Recently I participated in a support group for evangelism.  As we discussed various strategies for sharing Christ, one of the participants made the comment, “Of course, I don’t want to treat the unbeliever as a project.”  There seemed to be general assent that he was right.  And, put that way, who wouldn’t agree?  It sounds so ugly to treat another person as a “project”.  This is, in fact, currently a bit of common lore shared across our society today, even outside of Christian circles.  People should never be viewed as “projects”.

        As my friend made his comment, I experienced an ambivalent reaction.  Part of me agreed with him – with what I thought he meant, and part of me felt uncomfortable. The statement raises a worthwhile issue, and yet I wonder if there isn’t a better way to state it.  Let me explain:

What I find uncomfortable about the idea that we “shouldn’t make unbelievers a project”

1.  I find the statement, “we shouldn’t make unbelievers a project” to be too ambiguous

What does it mean to make another person “a project”?  We all assume that we share a common understanding of this phrase, but I doubt that we do. What I think my friend meant was that evangelism should occur within a context of genuine love and friendship and not just be an exercise in spiritual manipulation, or as another person present put it: “just trying to get another notch in my gospel gun.”  I can agree with that. But, for others, especially in our post-modern society, the statement seems to mean that we have no right to approach another person with the intent of changing them in any way.  So if I have a goal for your life, spoken or unspoken, they reason, I’ve now turned you into a project.  Is that true? The statement has multiple possible meanings, and it’s hard to know what’s being communicated when it’s used. This leads to my second concern.

2.  The statement “we shouldn’t make unbelievers a project” seems to cast a shadow on intentional evangelism

 

Jesus told us to “make disciples” (Matt. 28:19).  Notice the word “make”.  It implies intentional evangelism; deliberate efforts to convert others in Christ-followers.  We don’t just hope that others find Christ, we try our best, within reasonable limits, to make that happen for them.   Does the deliberate effort to lead someone to Christ turn them into a “project”?  In the eyes of many today, it does.  But should it? Are we to be reduced to passive evangelism, to “just shining Christ’s light in my own life” and hoping that somehow others will be inspired by our example to seek Christ too?  If so, the Apostle Paul, who unabashedly tried to persuade others to follow Jesus, would have failed this test. He constantly preached Christ and attempted to persuade others to believe (Acts 26:28,29).  

 

 

3.  The statement “we shouldn’t make unbelievers a project” seems to make evangelism an optional priority

While everything I do with others needn’t be directly focused on evangelism, helping others find Jesus will always be my top priority in every relationship.  In the end, if they die without salvation, what else matters?  This doesn’t mean that  we can’t just have fun with others at times, or interact on non-spiritual subjects.  Much of what we do will not be overtly spiritual; mostly ordinary living life stuff.  It just means that I do always have an agenda; often unspoken, and that is to see that everyone gets the greatest gift of all; salvation. This is not “making people a project”, it’s loving them at the highest level. Anything less is unloving.   

        Having expressed my discomfort with the statement that  “we shouldn’t make unbelievers a project”, let me add, however, that I agree with at least some of the concerns it’s trying to address. So let me share some possible correctives.

How can we avoid “turning unbelievers into projects”?

1.  I avoid turning unbelievers into projects when I act out of genuine love and concern for them

Jesus came to save us, not just to buff up His divine image, but because “God so loved the world” (John 3:16).  We aren’t just chess pieces He manipulates on a celestial board.  Jesus came because He cares about us personally.  He wept over rebellious Jerusalem (Luke 19;41,42). He expressed His love often to people and showed its depth by giving up His life for us (John 15:13).  Evangelism not motivated by love is a distortion.  And, let’s be honest, it is possible to do evangelism for questionable reasons. Paul spoke of people preaching Christ “out of envy and rivalry” (Phil. 1:15). Or we may, indeed, be “seeking to get more notches on our gospel gun”, leading others to Christ mostly because it gives us something to boast about. When God gives us a genuine concern for another person’s welfare, this will guide us away from using them merely as objects to be maneuvered for our own gain.  In fact, the rest of the correctives are based on a foundation of love.  

2.  I avoid turning unbelievers into projects when I respect their free will to choose or to reject Christ

When I make a wood project I don’t ask the boards if they want to be cut and fastened.  I just do it.  People, however, aren’t boards.  They’re moral agents with free wills. Even God Himself does not coerce anyone into following Him.  Many did, in fact, reject Jesus while He was on earth. He could easily have overwhelmed all opposition by unleashing His divine power, but He chose not to do that.  The apostle Paul “persuaded”  people to follow Christ (Acts 17:4) but he always stopped short of trying to impose conversion.  Salvation is a free choice or it’s not biblical.  It’s easy, even out of love, to get too pushy or even manipulative about the gospel, but that’s not only usually counterproductive – people resist – it’s also wrong.  When we sense ourselves getting too forceful, it’s a hint that we’re slipping into a “project” mentality.

3.  I avoid turning unbelievers into projects when I continue to show them love regardless of whether or not they are open to Christ

This, I think, is what my friend in the opening story was getting at. Don’t share the gospel, and then just dump those who aren’t interested.  Continue to value them, serve them, enjoy them, and love them regardless of their receptivity to Christ. Not only is this a reflection of Christ’s love for all sinners, it also increases the possibility, down the road, that the unbeliever may open up to Christ after they’ve experienced our unconditional love.

       

 

       

       
 

 

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81. What about those who have never heard of Jesus?

Are you saying that only Christians will go to heaven?

asked the person indignantly.

What about people who didn

t grow up in a place where Christianity was taught? What

about people who have never heard the name of Jesus or at least h

ad Him explained

well? Are they condemned to eternal suffering? How is

that

fair?!

This issue is among a handful of questions which make nearly every Ch

ristian

squirm.

In fact, it

s not just

non

-Christians who ask this question

m

any

Ch

ristians

wrestle with it too.

I

m aware that by even bringing up this question I

m walking into a theological

minefield. Any answer I give will be unacceptable and probably ev

en offensive to

multiple groups. There are no easy answers. If you have one, please h

and it over. I too

want to believe that everyone has an equal chance to find salvation

through Jesus.

Anything less seems unfair and unbiblical (more about that in a moment).

I will now disappoint my first group by admitting that I don

t have a solid, well-

defined answer to this question.

Nor have I been satisfied by the confident solutions

proposed to me by theology books and articles. For reasons I will discuss, th

ey leave

me dissatisfied.

So what I will attempt to give you today is not a final answer, but an

effort to put the issue in as plain a light as I can so that we can deal hon

estly with our

limitations on the subject, while trying to come

to

at least a livable solution.

Factors to consider when dealing with the issue of those who ha

ve not had a

good hearing of the gospel of Jesus Christ

Factor #1: The Bible leaves a certain amount of mystery about this

subject

One reason we argue so much over this issue is that the Bible doesn

t fully explain to us

all the factors which we

d like to know. Is general revelation (God speaking through

nature and reason) enough to damn people, but insufficient to sav

e them? Can God

speak clearly enough through the Spirit, apart from Scripture, to b

ring them to

salvation? Is an open heart toward God enough to guarantee tha

t He will reach to the

seeker? Each major theological group, it seems to me, attempts to answ

er the tough

questions by sliding the mystery around to a different location, but n

one removes it

altogether. This leads to my second assertion:

Factor #2: God is as clear as He chooses to be

The mysteries of Scripture are not accidental. God does not even try t

o address all of

our questions in the Bible. He leaves out some pieces of the puzzle. Delib

erately.

This

doesn

t mean, of course, that God

Himself

is unsure of all the right answers. He

understands everything perfectly. But He has not allowed us the same pri

vilege. Why?

I suspect that, at least in part, it

s done to humble us and remind us of our human

limitations. It also pushes us toward faith; toward trusting God beyond wha

t we can

understand. And, I suspect as well, that our human minds are incapable

of completely

comprehending all of God

s ways.

Admitting mystery where it exists is part of honestly

facing these sorts of issues.

 

81. What about those who have never heard of Jesus?

Factor #3

:

God loves every human being

Can we agree on that? Jesus wept over Jerusalem (Lk. 19:44-44) becaus

e He

d

wanted to draw them to Him as a hen draws her chicks but they were unwilling (

Matt.

23:37). John 3:16 tells us that

God so loved the world. . .

By

loves

, I mean that God

cares about each person and wants what is best for them, which, for me,

must

include

the next factor, otherwise it

s not love:

Factor #4: God wants to save everyone

A large group of believers will fall away from me after this statemen

t. They believe that

we can only be saved with God

s help (which I too believe), but that God only chooses

to give this absolutely crucial help to a small group called

the elect

.

Those outside of

that group lack even the

potential

to be saved and that

s by God

s choice. They

re

born

stuck and out of luck. In love, I must reply that I cannot buy that perspe

ctive. It goes

against the grain of so much in Scripture, in which God constantly plead

s with rebellious

people to repent. Furthermore, it

s hard to reconcile with verses like 2 Peter 3:9, which

tells us that God is

patient with you, not wanting

anyone

to perish, but

everyone

to

come to repentance.

A universal invitation makes no sense without a universal

capability to respond positively. I realize that there are sophisticate

d arguments which

disagree with me here, but I

ve heard them and come away unconvinced.

My last two

statements lead to the next:

Factor #5: God provides each person with sufficient resources

to be saved

This is where I choose to place the mystery in the salvation dilemma. If Go

d wants to

save everyone, then everyone must have a fighting chance to accept or to r

eject that

salvation; otherwise, the universal invitation is a hollow, me

aningless one

like offering

to sell a 30 million dollar mansion to a beggar. Why? Because God is ju

st (Ps. 98:9b),

and justice requires a fair chance. Furthermore, I

m unwilling to believe that God

s plan

to save someone will be foiled if the church fails to do its part; that yo

ur salvation

ultimately depends on me

that either Tim does his job or Joe goes to Hell

lots of

Joes in fact. I believe that what God commands, he always enables, ev

en if it involves

plans B, C, or Z.

So what is this

sufficient resource to be saved

, if it

s not a full presentation of

the New Testament gospel? The Bible does not answer this question directl

y. It does

tell us, however, of a large number of Old Testament saints who ne

ver heard about

Jesus; His coming to earth, His dying on the cross for our sins, and His r

esurrection.

Yet they

re still saints. In fact, two of them, Elijah and Moses, spoke with Jesus on the

Mount of Transfiguration. It tells us of people who didn

t even

have

the Jewish law, like

Melchizedek (Gen. 14:1

8)

, and possibly, Job, who, nevertheless clearly had a saving

relationship with God. So is it possible that the Spirit can save

anyone open to Him even

if they haven

t heard the name of Jesus? Before I make my final comments, let me set

some firm boundaries.

 

81. What about those who have never heard of Jesus?

First, without Jesus and his work on the cross no one would be saved. There

is

no alternate Savior or plan of salvation. The Bible makes this clear (A

cts 4:12, John

14:6). Second, we

re held responsible to boldly share the good news about Jesus

wherever possible (Matt. 28:19,20).

So how do I come to peace with the issue of those who have never heard

?

Although I must admit that the Bible does not specifically say this, in th

e end I want to

believe that the Spirit reaches to all, and that all who respond posi

tively to His invitation,

He will save. God

s love, His ways, and His creativity are deeper than we can imagine.

If

we

care about every lost person, He who sent His own Son to die on the cro

ss, must

care far more.

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81. What about those who have never heard of Jesus?

Are you saying that only Christians will go to heaven?

asked the person indignantly.

What about people who didn

t grow up in a place where Christianity was taught? What

about people who have never heard the name of Jesus or at least h

ad Him explained

well? Are they condemned to eternal suffering? How is

that

fair?!

This issue is among a handful of questions which make nearly every Ch

ristian

squirm.

In fact, it

s not just

non

-Christians who ask this question

m

any

Ch

ristians

wrestle with it too.

I

m aware that by even bringing up this question I

m walking into a theological

minefield. Any answer I give will be unacceptable and probably ev

en offensive to

multiple groups. There are no easy answers. If you have one, please h

and it over. I too

want to believe that everyone has an equal chance to find salvation

through Jesus.

Anything less seems unfair and unbiblical (more about that in a moment).

I will now disappoint my first group by admitting that I don

t have a solid, well-

defined answer to this question.

Nor have I been satisfied by the confident solutions

proposed to me by theology books and articles. For reasons I will discuss, th

ey leave

me dissatisfied.

So what I will attempt to give you today is not a final answer, but an

effort to put the issue in as plain a light as I can so that we can deal hon

estly with our

limitations on the subject, while trying to come

to

at least a livable solution.

Factors to consider when dealing with the issue of those who ha

ve not had a

good hearing of the gospel of Jesus Christ

Factor #1: The Bible leaves a certain amount of mystery about this

subject

One reason we argue so much over this issue is that the Bible doesn

t fully explain to us

all the factors which we

d like to know. Is general revelation (God speaking through

nature and reason) enough to damn people, but insufficient to sav

e them? Can God

speak clearly enough through the Spirit, apart from Scripture, to b

ring them to

salvation? Is an open heart toward God enough to guarantee tha

t He will reach to the

seeker? Each major theological group, it seems to me, attempts to answ

er the tough

questions by sliding the mystery around to a different location, but n

one removes it

altogether. This leads to my second assertion:

Factor #2: God is as clear as He chooses to be

The mysteries of Scripture are not accidental. God does not even try t

o address all of

our questions in the Bible. He leaves out some pieces of the puzzle. Delib

erately.

This

doesn

t mean, of course, that God

Himself

is unsure of all the right answers. He

understands everything perfectly. But He has not allowed us the same pri

vilege. Why?

I suspect that, at least in part, it

s done to humble us and remind us of our human

limitations. It also pushes us toward faith; toward trusting God beyond wha

t we can

understand. And, I suspect as well, that our human minds are incapable

of completely

comprehending all of God

s ways.

Admitting mystery where it exists is part of honestly

facing these sorts of issues.

 

81. What about those who have never heard of Jesus?

Factor #3

:

God loves every human being

Can we agree on that? Jesus wept over Jerusalem (Lk. 19:44-44) becaus

e He

d

wanted to draw them to Him as a hen draws her chicks but they were unwilling (

Matt.

23:37). John 3:16 tells us that

God so loved the world. . .

By

loves

, I mean that God

cares about each person and wants what is best for them, which, for me,

must

include

the next factor, otherwise it

s not love:

Factor #4: God wants to save everyone

A large group of believers will fall away from me after this statemen

t. They believe that

we can only be saved with God

s help (which I too believe), but that God only chooses

to give this absolutely crucial help to a small group called

the elect

.

Those outside of

that group lack even the

potential

to be saved and that

s by God

s choice. They

re

born

stuck and out of luck. In love, I must reply that I cannot buy that perspe

ctive. It goes

against the grain of so much in Scripture, in which God constantly plead

s with rebellious

people to repent. Furthermore, it

s hard to reconcile with verses like 2 Peter 3:9, which

tells us that God is

patient with you, not wanting

anyone

to perish, but

everyone

to

come to repentance.

A universal invitation makes no sense without a universal

capability to respond positively. I realize that there are sophisticate

d arguments which

disagree with me here, but I

ve heard them and come away unconvinced.

My last two

statements lead to the next:

Factor #5: God provides each person with sufficient resources

to be saved

This is where I choose to place the mystery in the salvation dilemma. If Go

d wants to

save everyone, then everyone must have a fighting chance to accept or to r

eject that

salvation; otherwise, the universal invitation is a hollow, me

aningless one

like offering

to sell a 30 million dollar mansion to a beggar. Why? Because God is ju

st (Ps. 98:9b),

and justice requires a fair chance. Furthermore, I

m unwilling to believe that God

s plan

to save someone will be foiled if the church fails to do its part; that yo

ur salvation

ultimately depends on me

that either Tim does his job or Joe goes to Hell

lots of

Joes in fact. I believe that what God commands, he always enables, ev

en if it involves

plans B, C, or Z.

So what is this

sufficient resource to be saved

, if it

s not a full presentation of

the New Testament gospel? The Bible does not answer this question directl

y. It does

tell us, however, of a large number of Old Testament saints who ne

ver heard about

Jesus; His coming to earth, His dying on the cross for our sins, and His r

esurrection.

Yet they

re still saints. In fact, two of them, Elijah and Moses, spoke with Jesus on the

Mount of Transfiguration. It tells us of people who didn

t even

have

the Jewish law, like

Melchizedek (Gen. 14:1

8)

, and possibly, Job, who, nevertheless clearly had a saving

relationship with God. So is it possible that the Spirit can save

anyone open to Him even

if they haven

t heard the name of Jesus? Before I make my final comments, let me set

some firm boundaries.

 

81. What about those who have never heard of Jesus?

First, without Jesus and his work on the cross no one would be saved. There

is

no alternate Savior or plan of salvation. The Bible makes this clear (A

cts 4:12, John

14:6). Second, we

re held responsible to boldly share the good news about Jesus

wherever possible (Matt. 28:19,20).

So how do I come to peace with the issue of those who have never heard

?

Although I must admit that the Bible does not specifically say this, in th

e end I want to

believe that the Spirit reaches to all, and that all who respond posi

tively to His invitation,

He will save. God

s love, His ways, and His creativity are deeper than we can imagine.

If

we

care about every lost person, He who sent His own Son to die on the cro

ss, must

care far more.

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         The point of connection between believers and non-believers has moved.  The frontline for sharing Christ is now mostly outside of the church building.  Unbelievers are not entering our sanctuary doors.  We must increasingly go to them where they are.

            One of the most common places of contact between Christians and non-Christians is work.  Our jobs allow us repeated contact with non-believers, usually more contact than we have with fellow church members or sometimes, even with our own families.  Certain jobs, of course, allow more interaction than others.  Nevertheless, one can learn a lot about another person over time, even from general observation and occasional conversation.  And once it becomes clear that we are committed Christ followers, the level of scrutiny often increases; if only in subtle ways.  People are curious about others who are unabashed Christ followers – What do we believe? Is it true?  Are we for real? Are we judgmental? Are we weird? Do our beliefs offer any real help for life?

These are fair, and even wise questions.  One would be foolish not to ask them about foundational beliefs for life.  This leads to a key issue for us as believers:

How can I be a strong witness for Christ in my job?

1.     I can be a strong witness for Christ by doing my job well

How we do our work is a key part of our testimony.  If we work hard and do quality work this not only earns respect from those around us, it also sends a message about our inner beliefs. We’re told in Colossians 3:23: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men. . .”  If our faith guides us to work hard and well, this is a pleasing testimony to the Spirit who lives within us.  Mediocre work, on the other hand, especially if it’s by our own choice, is a poor testimony.

2.    I can be a strong witness for Christ by doing my job with a good attitude

Work is work.  It’s not always fun or fair.  Yet, if our primary boss is God, we can still come to work with a positive attitude. He’ll reward our faithfulness whether or not the company does.  I’m not suggesting that we can’t address problems or inequities when they arise, just that we project a willing, positive focus on the job and those around us.  This makes us more winsome to others and draws them toward us.  It honors God.  As a bonus, it also makes the job more pleasant.  Whining and griping, on the other hand, is not appealing and detracts from our spiritual credibility.

3.    I can be a strong witness for Christ by being helpful to my co-workers

Do I think about what will make my fellow-workers look good, or what make their job easier? Am I focused on the team?  Or is my focus mainly on myself, my performance, and my achievement?  Paul tells us, in Philippians 2:4: “Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.” Sure, our primary focus is our own job, but there are ways of assisting others at the same time. This earns us credibility and creates more of a bond between us and our co-workers.

4.    I can be a strong witness for Christ by showing moral integrity

This one is a double-edged sword. On the one hand, if people see that we’re honest, fair, keep our word, and so on, this earns credibility.  On the other hand,  If we are serious followers of Christ, we’ll sometimes have to set moral limits at work which create difficulties.  I remember being told, at the steel mills, to falsify shipping reports and risking my job by refusing.  Some of you know what I mean.  Your boss is crooked, or your co-workers lie, and they pressure you to join in. Or you make a mistake and are tempted to blame someone else.

5.    I can be a strong witness for Christ by taking genuine interest in my co-workers

What do I know about the lives of my co-workers?  Their families?  Their interests?  Joys?  Sorrows?  Are we willing to listen more and to talk less?  There’s an art to doing this.  We don’t want to become the Grand Inquisitor. Start with easy questions and let their openness lead the way.  It’s a positive, though, for most people, when another person has a genuine interest in them and treats their lives as important.  Try to remember at least a few details of what they’ve shared, even if you have to write them down later, and repeat them back.  This is proof that you’re paying attention.

            These first five actions are critical for building a foundation of trust, credibility, and friendship.  And remember that these are done, not just to set up an opportunity for sharing Christ, but because we actually care about the person right now, whether or not we ever get the chance to speak of Christ to them.  God loves them right now and so do we.

6.    I can be a strong witness for Christ by being open about my faith

By “being open”, I don’t mean preaching sermons or wearing “evangelism T-shirts”.  I just mean mentioning God’s role in our lives in natural ways that fit into the conversations and situations that come up at work.  Short stories and personal examples are often more interesting and less threatening than declarative statements about absolute truth.  Don’t be afraid to mention something interesting that happened at church or how God is helping you to face a particular challenge.

7.    I can be strong witness for Christ by learning about my co-workers’ spiritual beliefs

This has to be done carefully.  Ask them spiritual questions.  If they don’t want to go there, respect that.  If they do give an answer, resist the urge to jump in with a quick critique and set them straight where you think them unbiblical.  Ask clarifying questions.  Be quick to find common ground where you can and express your appreciation of their understanding on those points.  If you do express a counter view-point, try expressing it more as, “this is where I’m coming from” than, “this is the way it is!”

8.    I can be a strong witness for Christ by patiently planting seeds and giving them time to grow

Some of us were taught, in evangelism, to jump quickly into a gospel presentation and then go for the closing.  If they weren’t open, we were to shake the dust off of our feet, and move on to the next person.  That’s a short-term strategy which may be the best we can do on an hour bus trip with a stranger, but it doesn’t usually work well in long-term relationships.  Research has shown that people seldom change their basic beliefs, and when they do, it’s often done very slowly, piece by piece.  Allow time for God’s truth to sink in and to take root. 

9.    I can be a strong witness for Christ by consistently praying for my co-workers

In ourselves, you and I can’t save anyone from sin.  God the Spirit has t0 soften hearts and open minds.  If we try to do this on our own strength we’ll fail.
           Pray and plant and wait with expectation.